It’s the most stressful time, of the year!
For some, Christmas is the most magical time of year. The build-up can be full of parties and socialising, and then the big day which is often spend with family and other loved ones can make memories that last a lifetime.
However, the level of stress associated with Christmas can vary widely from person to person. While Christmas is a joyful and festive holiday for many, it can also be a source of stress for some individuals.
There are many reasons Christmas can be stressful for some. The reasons for this stress can include:
- Financial pressures: The costs associated with buying gifts, decorations, and food for holiday gatherings can put a strain on some people’s budgets. With the current cost of living crisis, this could be more relevant than ever. Setting a budget with friends and family or agreeing to do a day out rather than expensive gifts can be a great way to ease financial strain.
- Family and social pressures: For some, the festive season can be a time when family tensions or relationship issues come to the forefront, leading to stress and upset. It’s important to take time for yourself to relax and reflect to get you through any difficult periods.
- Lacking time: Preparing for and celebrating Christmas can be time-consuming, with activities like shopping, decorating, cooking, and attending various events, which can be overwhelming for some. It’s important to remember that you can say no if you are finding yourself overwhelmed.
- Loneliness: Christmas can be a lonely time for those who are estranged from family or do not have a strong social support system. Reach out to local community groups and charities who will provide support through the festive period.
- Expectations: The pressure to create a perfect holiday experience, whether due to societal or personal expectations, can lead to stress. Avoid comparing yourselves to others, particularly through social media, which tends to give an unrealistic expectation of others.
It’s important to remember that not everyone experiences the same level of stress during the holiday season. Some people genuinely enjoy and look forward to the festive aspects of Christmas, while others may find it more challenging.
If you or someone you know is experiencing Christmas-related stress, it’s important to consider strategies for managing it, such as setting realistic expectations, prioritising self-care, and seeking support when needed.
At BNSHE Consulting, we offer a range of Mental Health First Aid Courses where learning takes place through a mix of group activities, presentations and discussions. To find out more, visit bnsheconsultancy.com/mental-health-first-aid-courses.
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Luke WellingsManagerTrueline Expanded Products Ltd
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Dr. Noel JohnCompliance Director LCI Rail
"We enlisted BNSHE to implement an integrated management system during 2018 that would be in compliance with ISO 9001, 14001 & 45001. This project was to be from start to finish and they should also attend the ISO certification audit (UKAS). We worked with both Neil and Bonny at times during this project which was seamless from beginning to end. Neil even managed to cross reference and signpost to existing processes required for our Rail RISQS compliance. We started in April and by September we were a certificated organisation. I have no hesitation in recommending the BNSHE team to any organisation who is looking for someone who delivers on what they promise they are just brilliant!"
Clive IllingworthSHEA ManagerEssential Fleet Services
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Mike Wilding DirectorDT Contracting (SW) Ltd
"After many years working with a multitude of consultants negotiating the myriad of compliance accreditations necessary to operate within the highly regulated construction industry we were fortunate to be introduced to BN SHE Consultancy Ltd. In a relatively short time Bonny and Neil have streamlined and updated all our internal SHEQ systems resulting in our ISO9001:2015 certification being achieved in less than a year. We are currently working towards ISO14001 and ISO45001 with the full guidance of BN SHE Consultancy Ltd, who also provide us with effective ongoing support in maintaining our SSIP and RISQS accreditations. The service extends to regular site audits and clear, objective reviews of our contract documentation in relation to SHEQ. Above all the support our team receives is always proactive and entirely professional, giving us an extra level of confidence in our day to day operations in what can still be very much a high risk industry. We would have no hesitation in recommending BH SHE Consultancy Ltd to other companies within the industry"
Megan McHaleCompliance ManagerFlatley Construction Limited
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Katie ShooterManagerAesthetiCare & Ferndale Pharmaceuticals Ltd
"Health and Safety is no longer something to be scared of in our company. We have been working with BN SHE Consultancy Ltd for over a year now, and this has just become a part of our daily routine. BN SHE always ensure we are fully compliant with Health and Safety regulations, and that we have the correct Risk Assessments in place which fall in line with business change. I would highly recommend BN SHE Consultancy Ltd."
Ciprian OstafiePlanning and Compliance ManagerEncompass Environmental Ltd
"Here at Encompass Environmental Ltd, we were looking for a consultancy to assist with our management system to obtain ISO Certifications. BN SHE was recommended to us, and we are so pleased that we got the help and support of Neil and his team – we couldn’t have asked for more. In a very professional, efficient, and cost-effective way, Neil and the team have assisted us to set up our Integrated Management System and obtain the ISO 9001:2015, ISO 14001:2015 and ISO 45001:2018 Certifications. And not only that, the Integrated Management System that has been set up by them also meets the requirements of RISQS. We would like to take this opportunity to say thank you for all the help and support throughout this process and to any organisation out there that is looking for consultancy within Health and Safety and Management Systems, we believe, without a shadow of a doubt that BN SHE Consultancy Ltd is the company to steer you in the right direction."
Michael Cirstean Managing Director Dynamic Group Limited
"Dynamic Group were looking for a company to help us with an integrated management system; ISO 9001, 14001 AND 45001 that would incorporate our rail management system to give us a solution for the whole business. We were referred to BN SHE and Neil was assigned to us to review our current systems. As soon as we were able to present to Neil our audit results he attended our offices and put together an action plan to adopt all the necessary processes and procedures required for us to reach the acquired standard. The speed in which Neil put our systems together is testament to the great service they provide. We gave them a narrow window within which we wanted to achieve these standards and working management system and they certainly delivered with time to spare. To help us through the process Neil often dealt with enquiries outside of office hours and this still further helped with a smoother process. Very professional at all times and highly recommended. Thank you to the BN SHE Team "
Joe Reynolds Operations DirectorAK Industries
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